I’ve helped people work through everything from organization-collapsing crises, to what’s holding them back in their love lives, to difficult messages to colleagues and loved ones.
This can be a multi-month process, or a one-off issue that just needs an informed, sensitive pair of ears or eyes. Find a summary of categories below, and keep scrolling for a more detailed breakdown of each.
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Personal/Relational
These sessions are for those who are feeling stuck on a personal matter. This could be related to your career, your relationship(s), or just yourself. We’ll work on getting you unstuck. I can serve as a sounding board and help you figure out your next steps.
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Work/Organizational
You are a leader, manager, or team member who is looking for a sounding board, insights, or advice. I can help you think through issues such as effective management, organizational structure, and team culture.
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Social/Political
If you want to understand a social issue or trend, want to understand why certain people think a certain way, or are looking for a judgment-free zone to challenge your perspectives, let’s talk.
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A la carte
Just need help on a very specific thing? I got you. I can help massage a message, do a sensitivity reading on your piece of writing, or heck, translate a Vietnamese poem for you!
Personal/Relational
One-on-one sessions in this category can deal with any of the following topics (or beyond):
A passion project
Personal conflict
Assertiveness and confidence
Career decisions
Work/life balance
Love and social life
Below are a few examples of the kind of issues that I can partner with you to work on.
I have an idea that I want to pursue, but I am unsure and scared about diving in.
Whether you want to launch a community-based project, a business, or you’re unsure about an endeavor, we can work together to answer questions for yourself. If you are ready to take the leap, I can provide you with planning frameworks for you to strategically map out your next steps.
I have trouble with confidence and assertiveness at work, while people with the loudest voices are rewarded.
I have helped individuals role play presentations and conversations, as well as run large-scale programs for those struggling with assertiveness in the corporate world. Let’s explore what’s getting in your way.
I’m experiencing a blockage in my social or romantic life. I want nourishing relationships in my life.
If you keep experiencing a pattern that you want to break through, let’s talk. Keep in mind, this is different from therapy (which I highly encourage!). We will identify what’s happening together, and I can work with you on practice, accountability, and planning.
Work/Organizational
One-on-one sessions in this category can deal with any of the following topics (or beyond):
Organizational structure
Workplace conflict
Leadership and Management
Communication models
Speaking and presentations
Feedback
Below are a few examples of the kind of issues that I can partner with you to work on.
I have a hard time having difficult conversations and giving feedback.
Do you find yourself nervous about tackling a challenging, necessary conversation? We can work together on a specific conversation you are trying to have, or developing a broader framework for these type of conversations, as well as how to give feedback effectively.
As a leader, I want to make sure all voices are heard. Or alternatively: I don’t understand why all voices need to be heard.
If you’re interested in improving the communication models of your team, we can identify what’s missing and work on implementing new or improved practices. If you think that the issue is that too many people are sharing their perspectives and it’s causing inefficiency, let’s discuss what needs to happen.
I’m about to run a really important meeting or program, what do I need to consider?
Whether you’re a veteran or it’s your first time planning, I can help provide structure to your organizing. We can partner on any or all phases of planning. This can include walking through principles of facilitation and program design.
Social/Political
Let’s talk about the things you’re afraid to talk about with your friends, family, and colleagues.
Book a one-on-one session if you’re looking for:
A breakdown on a current political issue
Better understanding of a specific demographic’s perspective
A candid conversation on a sensitive, hard-to-discuss topic
A reframing or challenge of a dominant narrative
A few examples:
I work with people from another age group and I’m finding it very difficult because we have so many differences.
If you are being challenged because you work across generations and the perspectives and culture are both jarring and frustrating, I can offer some perspectives that might ease the working process.
I’m writing an article/screenplay/book, but I’m concerned I have some blind spots.
Whether it’s race, gender, sexuality, or something else, I can help to facilitate your thinking and understanding. This is a partnered process to identify what you may be missing, misunderstanding, or what is needed to ensure that your writing will resonate.
I consider myself liberal and open-minded, but people calling for “defunding the police” are going too far.
This a judgment-free zone for your perspectives, and an open space for us to exchange ideas. In addition to an honest conversation, I am happy to provide resources for reading and research.